Ever since going to college in Santa Cruz, CA and seeing all the dreaded loveliness around town I've had this desire to have my own dreadlocks. It was something I thought about and then dismissed for a while. Then the movie The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe came out and I LOVED the white witch's hair. SO much!
I love love love this up-do. Beautiful.
And I thought about it some more and last year sometime I decided that I'd get dreads for my 40th birthday. My friend Denise blogged about a year ago about getting dreads and found out that there was someone in Portland who does them at a salon. I told Joe about it and said I'd like to get them done there... they'll still go through a wild stage, but it will be a little more tame than if I tried to do them myself or just let them dread naturally (which, with my hair, a few windy days at the beach with no brush would be all it'd take!)...
Fast forward to last week. Joe told me one day to pack a bag and not ask any questions. I was very curious, but I love surprises so I didn't want to ask too much and ruin it, so I just asked enough to know how much to bring and what kinds of temperatures I needed to plan for. My bag was ready, and I made a list of last minute items that would need to be included in case he was planning to whisk me away before I had a chance.
This morning I woke up at 5am with a text message from a friend. It said, "Have fun! I love you!" I figured she must know something I didn't and went to ask Joe if I should be getting ready for some reason. He didn't really wake up, but said, "Just be ready by 6:30."
I got ready and blew kisses to the sleeping children. Brooklyn was the only one awake. She said she knew about it and assured me that they would be fine. I said goodbye and "I'll see you tomorrow!"... knowing that I was scheduled to work on Friday morning. We got in the car and there was an envelope with my name on it (not in Joe's handwriting)... it was a note from my boss saying, "Joe and I have arranged for you to be off on Friday. Enjoy your trip!" At that point, I was a little freaked out... as in nervous, excited, and mommy mode kicked in... "When will we be back? What about the kids?" Joe let me in on all the deets of where they'd be each day (three days, three friends watching them!).
We arrived at the Oakland airport and as soon as I found out we were going to Portland, I said, "Joe, am I getting dreads this weekend???" (which I later realized this is the middle of the week, not the weekend, but that's neither here nor there...)
So we went through security and sat down at our gate, and he filled me in. We were to arrive in Portland and get a taxi to the salon. What a whirlwind! I guess instead of getting dreads for my 40th birthday (still over two years away!) I'll have nicely formed dreads by then! =)
They're coming along! It's such a cool process... she back combed the hair and used a teeny crochet hook to get them to dread together... kind of like needle felting my hair!
Stephanie was great! We had a great time talking with her and we even got to meet her little girl and her parents! Awesome family for reals.
All done! Stephanie rocks. If you ever want dreads in a day, go see her. Thanks Denise for letting me know about her!
This was taken right outside... I love it! She recommends leaving some of the front out.. you can always decide later to dread it, but it's more versatile (and dreamy) to leave some softness in the front.
Now we're in our room at the Kennedy School. Joe is sleeping (all that secret keeping wore him out!).. I used my phone to get a few more shots. Dorky, I know, but I wanted to have several shots of my first day with dreads. It's a journey and they're going to go through lots of changes, so I want to capture it along the way.
It's a lot shorter all dreaded!
Thanks for putting up with my silly self portraits! I'm a (dreadfully) happy girl! =)
i must say u really suit them, i had them when i was 18 and loved them.
ReplyDeleteYay for surprises!! Yay for Dreads!! Yay for Joe making it happen!! Love you!!
ReplyDeleteThey look soooo great, Jenny!!!! Have an awesome time!!!! Joe's a rockstar for all the wonderful secrets! ;) xoxo
ReplyDeletevery cool miss jen! so fun! now you and joe have a great rest of your time together!!
ReplyDeleteger xo
How awesome!! That is so cool of him to surprise you like that! They look so good on you!!
ReplyDeleteWow! Great story and Joe is awesome for pulling that off, they fit you perfect, congrats!
ReplyDeleteaww, what a sweet guy for surprising you with something you've wanted for so long!
ReplyDeleteoh my gosh your hair is cool. I have always loved seeing people in dreads. There's a family here in columbus that all have dreads. yes, even the small kids.
ReplyDeleteYou have an amazing husband, Jen. Love him w/ all you've got. :-)
ReplyDeleteohhhhh Jenny they look amazing!! I love them! that is so cool of joe to suprise you like that. I've always dreamed of having dreads too but have always been a little scared to take that leap... you are totally inspiring! :)
ReplyDeleteTHAT is SOOO awesome ~ from your husband planning all this by himself and you doing it!! Congratulations and I think they look beautiful!!!
ReplyDeletexoxo
You look great with dreads! How fun! Congrats! Way to go Joe!
ReplyDeleteThey look amazing on you Jen! Wow can Joe keep a secret and plan an a great surprise. You must've been ready to jump out of your skin in excitement when you finally found out. Congrats! I've always loved how they look, and you're no exception!
ReplyDeleteCongrats again and enjoy Portland!
Belinda
Isn't it amazing how a beautiful woman looks even MORE beautiful when she goes dread? You're no exception! You look great!
ReplyDeleteI myself am 18 months into my dread journey - natural-neglect dreadies. It's a wonderful journey that teaches patience, for sure. Enjoy!
They look wonderful! What a great story, and nice of your husband to arrange it all.
ReplyDeleteI've thought about getting them as well, but have been too chicken. I worry about the Un-dreading process. I've always heard you have to shave off your hair, perhaps that's an urban legend.:)
Anyway, popped over after finding you on Flying Lessons, thought I say hi. :)
What a sweet bunch of family and friends. You look absolutely beautiful!
ReplyDeleteOooooh!! Look at you!! They look amazing. You are stunning.
ReplyDeleteI'm planning some dread maintenance with Stephanie when we're in Portland in August/Sept. Yummy!